Are you trying to re-invent the wheel?
Do you find people that are successful at what you want to be great at and learn how they did it?
Or do you attempt to figure it all out from scratch on your own?
I have found that most successful people are willing to share what got them there, most people just don't ask.
ACTION STEP FOR TODAY:
Plan a meeting today with someone that has more knowledge and wisdom than you and learn from them.